Tell me what you think

I came across this article the other day. I am really not sure what I think about it. Do I coddle my children too much? Do I not expect enough out of them? Of course I want them to succeed in everything they do,but if they don't, am I making up some excuse for them,why they aren't.  Whats the harm in letting them have fun as children. Have sleepovers, play dates, play computer/video games. Do extracurricular activities. Maybe I dont expect enough out of my children. Maybe I need to start being that tiger mom!